We attract whatever we choose to give our attention to–whether wanted or unwanted.
There are those that think we attract by ‘default’ rather than by deliberate choice. We are governed by whether we think positively or negatively. For instance, thinking about solutions to potential problems is a positive way to deal with things. This way, the problem ceases to be a problem because you already have dealt with it. If you say to yourself that you have this or that problem to deal with, the “problem” becomes more difficult because you haven’t already thought of the solution. Continue reading
If you can develop a winning mindset, success will follow.
During a conversation with one of my mentors today, I was disturbed to hear that I was saying some relatively negative things. I was told that I was talking about saying what I can’t do for most of the time. Not that I believe that I can’t because I know I am capable and have the skill to do whatever I want to, but the psychology is such that your subconscious will feed off that “I can’t” negativity. Continue reading